Eia me mākou nā makahiki o nā mea kākoʻo a auwe ka poʻe ʻōpio i kēia manawa paʻakikī ke nānā aku i nā ipo wahine e ukali ana ma hope o nā ʻelemākule. Ua hala nā lā i manaʻo ʻia ai ke kākoʻo no ka poʻe i hana maikaʻi i ke kula, ma nā papa a me nā hana co-marautanga. Ua hiki i ka poʻe āpau ke nānā aku i ke kākoʻo 'ana i ka' mea hou-hou 'mea. Ma ka 'old-new' mea mākou i manaʻo ai i ka wā kahiko, ua hoʻokau ʻia nā wahine ʻōpio e mare i nā ʻelemākule. Ke hoʻohālikelike nei i kēlā mau lā i kēia mau lā, ʻo ka ʻokoʻa i kēia manawa ke lawe nei nā wahine ʻōpio iā lākou iho i nā ʻelemākule.
ʻAʻole kēia mau mea hou; loihi ma laila. ʻO ka mea e hana nei i nā mea a ka mea kākoʻo i mea hou ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hopunaʻōlelo i kahi hanana. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kākoʻo ʻana ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hele ʻoe i United States a i ʻole loaʻa i kekahi ʻano kālā maikaʻi. He mea ia e kiʻi i kahi ʻelemakule i mākaukau e kaʻana like me ʻoe i kā lākou 'pōmaikaʻi hoʻomaha' i ke kūleʻa no ka leʻaleʻa a i ʻole e leʻaleʻa wale i ko lākou napoʻo ʻana o ka makahiki me ʻoe. Nui a hewahewa nā ʻano o nā 'kākoʻo'. Mai nā ʻelemakule maoli a i nā keonimana ʻōpio e alualu ana i nā pālule a puni lākou.
Kākoʻo lākou iā ʻoe ma nā ʻaoʻao āpau. Hiki iā lākou ke kūʻai aku iā ʻoe i hale nani ma nā kaona lau nahele a kūʻai aku hoʻi iā ʻoe i kahi kaʻa pipiʻi. I luna o ia mea, hoʻopaʻa inoa lākou i ka puke puke kaʻa i kou inoa - ʻike wale ʻoe i ka manaʻo o ka ʻoihana .. Hōʻoia ka mea kākoʻo iā ʻoe e hele i ke kūʻai ma nā kūlanakauhale ʻoi loa o ka honua; Ladana, Dubai a i ʻole Palisa. Hāʻawi lākou iā ʻoe i kahi nohona ma mua o kāu mau moemoeā loa.
Heʻuʻuku kāna mau koi no ka mea he ʻekolu kāna wahine ʻē aʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe; He ʻohana nui pū kekahi me nā moʻopuna, no laila ʻaʻole lākou e noho manawa ma kou hale. ʻO kāna koi e kiʻi i ke kino he haʻahaʻa loa e like me ... well; haʻahaʻa kona ikehu mahalo i kona wā elemakule. ʻO ka hapanui, hāʻule nā tacoona a me nā poʻe koʻikoʻi ma mua o 50 mau makahiki i kēia waeʻano. Hiki iā lākou ke kāhea ʻia he 'hoa palena ʻole'.
2. Kākoʻo palena ʻia
ʻO kahi mea kākoʻo kaupalena ke ʻano o ke kākoʻo e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā mea āpau. E kūʻai lākou iā ʻoe i hale a me kahi kaʻa akā e hoʻopaʻa inoa lākou i kēia mau waiwai āpau ma lalo o ko lākou inoa. E kāleka pū lākou i kou ola a mālama iā ʻoe i nā lā nui makamae… ka hapanui ma kahi o ka ʻāina. ʻOiai ikaika lākou, hoʻoholo paha lākou e loaʻa i kahi keiki ʻelua a ʻelua paha me ʻoe.
Kipa aku lākou iā ʻoe no ka pō wale nō a lele ma mua pono o ka puka ʻana o ka lā. ʻOi aku ko lākou kuleana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e like me kāu e ʻike ai ma hope, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi i kēia ʻoiai he ʻekolu a lākou mau ʻaoʻao ʻaoʻao. Hāʻule lākou i ke kau makahiki 45 a 55 mau makahiki. ʻO Mika Politika a ʻo kēlā kanaka loio kekahi o lākou.
3. Nā kākoʻo kikoʻī
Loaʻa lākou no kekahi lā a no kahi hana i hāʻawi ʻia. Hiki iā kēia ke lilo i Facebook, Instagram, Twitter a i ʻole nā pā pāʻina pāʻoihana kaiapili o ka moa, nona kahi uku hoʻolima i ka hopena o ka mahina no ka pizza. ʻO lākou ke ʻano me nā pahu ʻeono peku āu e manaʻo ai ua kūkulu ʻia e nā mea hana kaʻaahi ana. Mālama pinepine lākou i nā kaikamahine i ka wā kinipōpō peku a i ʻole ke loaʻa kekahi mea maikaʻi i ke kaona. He wannabes lākou a ʻo ka mamao loa a lākou e lawe ai iā ʻoe he huakaʻi kūloko. Hoʻomana hoʻomana pinepine ʻia nā mea kākoʻo kikoʻī ma kahi moe.
4. Nā mea kākoʻo liʻiliʻi
ʻO kēia kahi e hāʻule ai ka hapa nui o nā mea kākoʻo. E kāhea aku kēia kanaka iā ʻoe i ka mahina hope ke ʻike ʻo ia iā ia kāna uku 'hiki ke hoʻokele'. E lawe ʻo ia iā ʻoe i waho e inu ai a i ʻole no hoʻokahi mea nui a laila 'moe me ʻoe i ka pō holoʻokoʻa. Ma hope o kēia mālama ʻana i kēia pō, hoʻi ʻo ia i ka wahine a kali no kā lākou uku uku e hiki aku ai e launa aku iā ʻoe.
5. Nā mea kākoʻo ʻoihana
ʻO kēia ka mea e kaʻana like i kāna ʻike a lawelawe pilikino paha iā ʻoe. E kūʻai wale lākou i kahi mea inu iā ʻoe ma hope o ko lākou huluhulu ʻana i ka lā holoʻokoʻa no kēlā kālā. A laila makemake e hiamoe me ʻoe.
6. Nā mea kākoʻo hāmau
ʻO kēia hope loa ka mea i komo ʻole i ka hana o ke kākoʻo ʻoiai ma ke ʻano maoli ʻo ia wale nō ka mahalo a me ka hiamoe ʻana me kekahi wahine āna i ʻike ai.
